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Kelly Greene  
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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Thu, 5 Nov 2009 22:17:42 -0600
Local: Fri, Nov 6 2009 12:17 pm
Subject: Relapse/bad news
The cat had a severe relapse last night.  She was acting odd all yesterday
evening. Restless, with what looked like a weakness in her hind legs and
little appetite. She didn't eat or drink much all day.  When we went to bed
we feared the worst.  We woke up to find her in a tight curl to the left,
hardly able to move at all.  This was the worst she has been in since she
walked in our door 5 weeks ago. We could see she was in severe distress. Her
eyes were glazed and her voice very weak.

Enter a new Dr. The new Dr put her on Enrofloxacin for 21 days. She also has
her on Pred' as did the other vet, but so far there has not been the
positive response to Pred as the first time.  The first time it acted like a
miracle drug in only a few hours.  She's in her carry case (by choice)
almost all day today.  After these 21 days on the new antibiotic, the vet
said we'll discuss what can possibly be done next should she not respond.
The last antibiotic apparently did nothing. The cat is still suffering. It's
plain to see.

Other symptoms are her poor coat. It's worse now than when she wandered over
here.  She's been getting mostly wet food with Missing Link Omega3 added for
a month.  I also add some chicken fat or butter to her dinner.  But her coat
looks worse by the day.  It looks like the coat of a very very old sick cat
or one infested with parasites which she is not.  Also, muscle wastage. Her
muscles are wasting away. The few ounces she gained in the past 5 weeks are
most likely fluid from the Pred.  Tests for internal parasites, cat AIDS and
Leukemia were again negative. Blood work shows no evidence of kidney
failure.


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Phil P.  
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From: "Phil P." <p...@maxshouse.com>
Date: Thu, 5 Nov 2009 23:35:30 -0500
Local: Fri, Nov 6 2009 12:35 pm
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

"Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote in message

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Did you have her T-4 checked for hyperthyroidism?  Not all hyperthyroid cats
have ravenous appetites- so don't be too quick to rule it out.

Good luck.


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From: "cybercat" <cyberpu...@yahoo.com>
Date: Fri, 6 Nov 2009 00:13:36 -0500
Local: Fri, Nov 6 2009 1:13 pm
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

> "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote in message
> news:hd081e$kpq$1@solani.org...
>> The cat had a severe relapse last night.  She was acting odd all
>> yesterday
>> evening. Restless, with what looked like a weakness in her hind legs and
>> little appetite. She didn't eat or drink much all day.  When we went to
> bed
>> we feared the worst.  We woke up to find her in a tight curl to the left,
>> hardly able to move at all.  This was the worst she has been in since she
>> walked in our door 5 weeks ago. We could see she was in severe distress.
> Her
>> eyes were glazed and her voice very weak.

>> Enter a new Dr.

Thank you. I hope he can find out what is wrong with her. Poor baby.

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From: FirstHit <First...@aol.com>
Date: Thu, 5 Nov 2009 22:19:07 -0800 (PST)
Local: Fri, Nov 6 2009 2:19 pm
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news
On Nov 5, 8:17 pm, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote:

Very sad to hear of this relapse.  I am worried for her.

Thanks for the update.  I hope that the drugs do good and the vet can
determine what exactly is going on.

FirstHit


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From: dgk <d...@somewhere.com>
Date: Fri, 06 Nov 2009 09:35:39 -0500
Local: Fri, Nov 6 2009 10:35 pm
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news
On Thu, 5 Nov 2009 22:17:42 -0600, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
wrote:

You're doing the best you can. Purrs for the kitty. Sorry it was such
a tough five weeks and I'm pulling for her.

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Kelly Greene  
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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Fri, 6 Nov 2009 10:16:23 -0600
Local: Sat, Nov 7 2009 12:16 am
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

"Phil P." <p...@maxshouse.com> wrote in message

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I don't think she was checked for that since it doesn't cause tight curling
to one side and loss of balance.  The curling to one side is her main issue.

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Kelly Greene  
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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Fri, 6 Nov 2009 10:22:51 -0600
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

"FirstHit" <First...@aol.com> wrote in message

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On Nov 5, 8:17 pm, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote:

Very sad to hear of this relapse.  I am worried for her.

Thanks for the update.  I hope that the drugs do good and the vet can
determine what exactly is going on.

FirstHit
~ ~ ~
This is the second vet and the diagnosis was the same.  :*(


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Kelly Greene  
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Date: Fri, 6 Nov 2009 10:29:29 -0600
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

"dgk" <d...@somewhere.com> wrote in message

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We've resigned ourselves.  :*(    MRIs and CT scans are out of our reach.

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From: "MaryL" <stanco...@yahoo.comTAKE-OUT-THE-LITTER>
Date: Fri, 6 Nov 2009 13:30:08 -0600
Local: Sat, Nov 7 2009 3:30 am
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

"Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote in message

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I'm so sorry to hear this.  It sounds far more serious than an inner ear
infection to me (even with bone problems).  This sounds like neurological
problems.  I have no medical training, so that's purely guesswork--I'm very
glad that you sought a second opinion.  Even if there is no way to save this
little kitty (and it's sounding that way), you have at least given her a
chance.  Thank you!

MaryL


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Kelly Greene  
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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 02:58:15 -0600
Local: Mon, Nov 9 2009 4:58 pm
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

"MaryL" <stanco...@yahoo.comTAKE-OUT-THE-LITTER> wrote in message

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> I'm so sorry to hear this.  It sounds far more serious than an inner ear
> infection to me (even with bone problems).  This sounds like neurological
> problems.  I have no medical training, so that's purely guesswork--I'm
> very glad that you sought a second opinion.  Even if there is no way to
> save this little kitty (and it's sounding that way), you have at least
> given her a chance.  Thank you!

> MaryL

She's still very bad.  There's been no improvement at all.  I'll call the
vet tomorrow and see what she recommends now. This whole thing is getting
extremely depressing for us.  This past month has been the worst we've had
in years.  Like us humans, not all cats born are destined to live long
healthy lives.  I think it's time we let her go.......    :*(

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From: FirstHit <First...@aol.com>
Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 01:54:41 -0800 (PST)
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update
On Nov 9, 12:58 am, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote:

Sorry to hear.  I can imagine how depressing this is.

FirstHit


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Kelly Greene  
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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 11:13:30 -0600
Local: Tues, Nov 10 2009 1:13 am
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

"FirstHit" <First...@aol.com> wrote in message

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On Nov 9, 12:58 am, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote:

> She's still very bad. There's been no improvement at all. I'll call the
> vet tomorrow and see what she recommends now. This whole thing is getting
> extremely depressing for us. This past month has been the worst we've had
> in years. Like us humans, not all cats born are destined to live long
> healthy lives. I think it's time we let her go....... :*(

Sorry to hear.  I can imagine how depressing this is.

FirstHit

We're waiting for the vet to call us back but that's really futile. We plan
to take her to the shelter in a nearby town this afternoon that humanely
puts them to sleep. She's losing control of her bladder now. She appeared to
have a seizure last night and it's clear she's in utter misery and most
likely pain.  To prolong the inevitable would be cruel, both to her and us.


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From: dgk <d...@somewhere.com>
Date: Mon, 09 Nov 2009 13:11:55 -0500
Local: Tues, Nov 10 2009 2:11 am
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update
On Mon, 9 Nov 2009 11:13:30 -0600, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
wrote:

Oh, I just hate reading this but thanks for posting anyway. Sometimes
you wonder if you waited too long to put them out of their misery but
whatever is going on with this cat is just too much. At least you
won't have that internal debate. Purrs however it goes.

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From: MLB <mlbri...@nonesuch.com>
Date: Mon, 09 Nov 2009 12:46:23 -0700
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

You have done everything possible to ease her suffering.  Now let her
rest in peace.
",,,,Rise up slowly, Angel...." It's hard to let you go.
Condolences to those who mourn.  MLB

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Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 17:00:30 -0600
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

"Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote in message

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I'm so sorry to hear this, but I really do appreciate the efforts you took
to help her (both emotional and financial).  This is the most difficult of
all decisions when taking care of our furbabies, but it eventually becomes
the most humane thing to do--a true act of kindness and love.

MaryL


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Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 19:15:58 -0500
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news

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Ventral flexion of the neck is one of the clinical signs of hyperthyroidism.
Your cat is displaying several clinical signs of hyperthyroidism. If I were
you I'd order a T-4 test. Its only $40.

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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 20:16:28 -0600
Local: Tues, Nov 10 2009 10:16 am
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

"dgk" <d...@somewhere.com> wrote in message

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> Oh, I just hate reading this but thanks for posting anyway. Sometimes
> you wonder if you waited too long to put them out of their misery but
> whatever is going on with this cat is just too much. At least you
> won't have that internal debate. Purrs however it goes.

I had a good cry and we took her. We knew it was the right thing. She seemed
to be in a daze, unaware of what was going on.  Her rear legs were
stiffening, getting paralyzed.  They treated her with total respect and I
know tonight she's in a better place. Her suffering is over.  I think my
husband and I both knew there was no hope for her some time back, but wanted
her to have a chance.  But from the end of one's life came life for two
more.

We went over to look at the cats and kittens in the adoption section. My
heart broke for them. We adopted two little girl kitties.  One is a 6 wk old
brown tabby Main Coon fuzzy type, just weaned, and the other a gray mottled
with white 4 month old American Shorthair kitty.  The little one is Phaedra
and the larger Zephyr. Zephyr is a total lap cat. Phaedra is too young yet
to seek much attention and just wants to run around and play with her toys
and "attack" Zephyr. Zephyr uses the poor little thing like a toy but little
Phaedra loves it.  What a pair. :-)

Phaedra finally fell asleep in the laundry I was about to wash, so I left
her there. I can do the laundry tomorrow. Zephyr, her little "play toy"
sleeping, was going back and forth from my husband to myself... from one lap
to another.  She finally settled down on one of the chairs near my desk and
is grooming her beautiful coat.  :-)


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Kelly Greene  
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From: "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net>
Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 20:22:06 -0600
Local: Tues, Nov 10 2009 10:22 am
Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

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> Kelly Greene wrote:
>> We're waiting for the vet to call us back but that's really futile. We
>> plan to take her to the shelter in a nearby town this afternoon that
>> humanely puts them to sleep. She's losing control of her bladder now. She
>> appeared to have a seizure last night and it's clear she's in utter
>> misery and most likely pain.  To prolong the inevitable would be cruel,
>> both to her and us.

> You have done everything possible to ease her suffering.  Now let her rest
> in peace.
> ",,,,Rise up slowly, Angel...." It's hard to let you go.
> Condolences to those who mourn.  MLB

It was so hard, so very hard to let her go. We had so hoped she would
recover. :*(

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Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 20:25:47 -0600
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

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> I'm so sorry to hear this, but I really do appreciate the efforts you took
> to help her (both emotional and financial).  This is the most difficult of
> all decisions when taking care of our furbabies, but it eventually becomes
> the most humane thing to do--a true act of kindness and love.

> MaryL

We gave her the care she needed at the end of her life. She didn't die alone
under the outbuilding or in the woods. I know I'll see her again at the
Rainbow Bridge. I have to believe that tonight...........   :*(

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Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 18:54:53 -0800 (PST)
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update
On Nov 9, 6:16 pm, "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote:

Sorry things didn't turn out better, but you did your best and went
all out for the poor kitty, and you can be happy about what you did
for her.  It will all be worth it when you meet again.

Adopting the two kitties was a wonderful thing.  I wish the kitties
many years of health.  You and the kitties deserve that!

FirstHit


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Date: Mon, 9 Nov 2009 20:13:13 -0500
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

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us.

I'm sorry I didn't read your post before I replied.

In light of the latest developments, I think you're giving her the greatest
gift of all.

My condolences,

Phil


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Date: Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:00:53 -0600
Local: Wed, Nov 11 2009 4:00 am
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"Phil P." <p...@maxshouse.com> wrote in message

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> "Kelly Greene" <kg1...@wildred.net> wrote in message
> news:hd1i51$u50$1@solani.org...

>> I don't think she was checked for that since it doesn't cause tight
> curling
>> to one side and loss of balance.  The curling to one side is her main
> issue.

> Ventral flexion of the neck is one of the clinical signs of
> hyperthyroidism.
> Your cat is displaying several clinical signs of hyperthyroidism. If I
> were
> you I'd order a T-4 test. Its only $40.

She was twisted to the left in a tight curl and could only move in a curled
direction. After she suffered a seizure (she may have had several that
night) and lost control of her bladder and bowels, went into a daze and
could no longer swallow, we had her mercifully euthanized.  Enough was
enough already.  She's not suffering anymore.

Had it been a thyroid problem, the Pred' would not have made the difference
it did the fist two times.


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Date: Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:04:26 -0600
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

"FirstHit" <First...@aol.com> wrote in message

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Adopting the two kitties was a wonderful thing.  I wish the kitties
many years of health.  You and the kitties deserve that!

FirstHit

We're leaving for the vet in a few minutes for a complete exam, have fecals
run ... whatever. These little girls, one nearing the end of her "time" at
the shelter, will be much loved and get the best care we can afford for
them.


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From: "Matthew" <iamacatslave...@proudtoserve.com>
Date: Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:12:12 -0500
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news
I am very sorry Kelly
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From: Noon Cat Nick <chatdemidiSPAMBEG...@hotmail.com>
Date: Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:57:16 GMT
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Subject: Re: Relapse/bad news update

When humans die, they make a will
To leave their homes, and all they
Have to those they love.

I too would make a will, if I could write.
To some poor, wistful, lonely stray
I'd leave my happy home,
My dish, my cozy bed, my cushioned chair, my toy,
The well-loved lap,
The gently stroking hand,
The loving voice,
The place I made in someone's heart,
The love, that at the last
Could help me to a peaceful, painless end
Held in loving arms.

If I should die,
Oh! Do not say:
"No more a pet I'll have
To grieve me by its loss."
Seek out some lonely, unloved cat
And give my place to him.
This is my legacy,
The love I leave behind,
'Tis all I have to give.

--Margaret Trowton

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Is Heaven all you asked of it,
O little cat?  Did Peter fit
A halo for your graceless head?
Is there a quilt for your special bed,
And a bowl of cream just out of reach
Of your thieving paw?  Or do They teach
You not to steal in paradise?
Does the flapping of Their wings entice?
Do you scamper and swing on a golden fence,
Or are They teaching you reverence?
And are there really golden thrones
Up there?  Or do the Mighty Ones
Have nice fat chairs that you can claw
And tear and snag with an impious paw?
And do the angels understand
That a little cat in a lonely land
Still longs for a kiss and a friendly cuff?

Celestial joys are not enough.
Please, some small saint in shining white,
Hold her close in your arms tonight.

--Bianca Bradbury

================================

Dancing ribbons pushed by time
Float through an old kitten's dreams.
She chases them into eternity,
And catches them,
As they change into angels' wings.

--Daryl Douglas Foyer

================================

CHOICES
by Anne Kolaczyk

The little orange boy stopped.  Behind him, kitties were playing,
chasing each other and wrestling in the warm sunshine.  It looked like
so much fun, but in front of him, through the clear stillness of the
pond's water, he could see his mommy.  And she was crying.

He pawed at the water, trying to get at her, and when that didn't work,
he jumped into the shallow water.  All that got him was wet and Mommy's
image danced away in the ripples.  "Mommy!" he cried.

"Is something wrong?"

The little orange boy turned around.  A lady was standing at the edge of
the pond, her eyes sad but filled with love.  The little orange boy
sighed and walked out of the water.  "There's been a mistake," he said.
"I'm not supposed to be here."  He looked back at the water.  It was
starting to still again and his mommy's image was coming back.  "I'm
just a baby.  Mommy said it had to be a mistake.  She said I wasn't
supposed to come here yet."

The kind lady sighed and sat down on the grass.  The little orange boy
climbed into her lap.  It wasn't Mommy's lap, but it was almost as good.
  When she started to pet him and scratch under his chin like he liked,
he started to purr.  He hadn't wanted to, but he couldn't help it.  "I'm
afraid there is no mistake.  You are supposed to be here and your mommy
knows it deep down in her heart," the lady said.

The little orange boy sighed and laid his head on the lady's leg.  "But
she's so sad.  It hurts me to see her cry.  And Daddy too."

"But they knew right from the beginning this would happen."

"That I was sick?"  That surprised the little orange boy.  No one had
ever said anything and he had listened when they thought he was
sleeping.  All he had heard them talk about was how cute he was or how
fast he was or how big he was getting.

"No, not that you were sick," the lady said.  "But you see, they chose
tears."

"No, they didn't," the little orange boy argued.  Who would choose to cry?

The lady gently brushed the top of his head with a kiss.  It made him
feel safe and loved and warm--but he still worried about his mommy.
"Let me tell you a story," the lady said.

The little orange boy looked up and saw other animals gathering around.

Cats--Big Boy and Snowball and Shamus and Abby and little Cleo and
Robin.  Merlin and Toby and Iggy and Zachary. Sweetie and Kamatte and Obie.

Dogs too--Sally and Baby and Morgan and Rocky and Belle.  Even a lizard
named Clyde and some rats named Saffron and Becky and a hamster named
Odo.  They all lay down near the kind lady and looked up at her, waiting.

She smiled at them and began:

********************************************

A long long time ago, the Loving Ones went to the Angel in Charge.  They
were lonesome and asked the angel to help them.

The angel took them to a wall of windows and let them look out the first
window at all sorts of things--dolls and stuffed animals and cars and
toys and sporting events.

"Here are things you can love," the angel said.  "They will keep you
from being lonesome."

"Oh, thank you," the Loving Ones said.  "These are just what we need."

"You have chosen Pleasure," the angel told them.

But after a time the Loving Ones came back to the Angel in Charge.
"Things are okay to love," they said.  "But they don't care that we love
them."

The Angel in Charge led them over to the second window.  It looked out
at all sorts of wild animals.  "Here are animals to love," he said.
"They will know you love them."

So the Loving Ones hurried out to care for the wild animals.  "You have
chosen Satisfaction," the angel said.

Some of the Loving Ones worked at zoos and wild animal preserves, some
just had bird feeders in their yards, but after a time they all came
back to the Angel in Charge.

"They know we love them," they told the angel.  "But they don't love us
back.  We want to be loved in return."

So the angel took them to the third window and showed them lots of
people walking around, hurrying places.  "Here are people for you to
love," the angel told them.  So the Loving Ones hurried off to find
other people to love.  "You have chosen Commitment," the angel said.

But after a time a lot of Loving Ones came back to the Angel in Charge.
"People were okay to love," they said.  "But sometimes they stopped
loving us and left.  They broke our hearts."

The angel just shook his head.  "I cannot help you," he said.  "You will
have to be satisfied with the choices I gave you."

As the Loving Ones were leaving, someone saw a window off to one side
and hurried to look out.  Through it, they could see puppies and kittens
and dogs and cats and lizards and hamsters and ferrets.  The other
Loving Ones hurried over.  "What about these?" they asked.

But the angel just tried to shoo them away.  "Those are Personal Empathy
Trainers," he said.  "But there's a problem with their system operations."

"Would they know that we love them?" someone asked.

"Yes," the angel said.

"Would they love us back?" another asked.

"Yes," the angel said.

"Will they stop loving us?" someone else asked.

"No," the angel admitted.  "They will love you forever."

"Then these are what we want," the Loving Ones said.

But the angel was very upset.  "You don't understand," he told them.
"You will have to feed these animals."

"That's all right," the Loving Ones said.

"You will have to clean up after them and take care of them forever."

"We don't care."

The Loving Ones did not listen.  They went down to where the Pets were
and picked them up, seeing the love in their own hearts reflected in the
animals' eyes.

"They were not programmed right," the angel said.  "We can't offer a
warranty.  We don't know how durable they are.  Some of their systems
malfunction very quickly, others last a long time."

But the Loving Ones did not care.  They were holding the warm little
bodies and finding their hearts so filled with love that they thought
they would burst.  "We will take our chances," they said.

"You do not understand."  The angel tried one more time.  "They are so
dependent on you that even the most well-made of them is not designed to
outlive you.  You are destined to suffer their loss."

The Loving Ones looked at the sweetness in their arms and nodded.  "That
is how it should be.  It is a fair trade for the love they offer."

The angel just watched them all go, shaking his head.  "You have chosen
Tears," he whispered.

********************************************

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